Saturday, January 31, 2009

Is having octuplets ethical? Yes!

Many of you may have seen or read about the woman who just had octuplets. For those of you who don't know, that is eight, yes eight, babies at once! Wow! After having two inside of me at once I can't even begin to imagine how uncomfortable that woman must have been! Okay, back to my point. I have been watching and reading how people think that she was being unethical by having that many babies at one time. She received advice (pre and post birth) to terminate, i.e. kill, most of her babies. There was a doctor from San Diego on Good Morning America today who said that they used to encourage women who had 4 babies to abort 1 of them, now they encourage women who have 3 or 2 babies to bring them down. I can't even imagine how upset I would have been if my doctor had encouraged me to kill one of my girls! I can't imagine my life without them. I would have ended up switching doctors, that is for sure. So, anyway...I find it appalling that in our society today there is no problem or concerns with aborting your babies but there is a problem with having them. If this woman had decided to abort all of those babies there would never have been the question of if she was ethical or not, but because her beliefs led her to have all of the babies she is called in to question? The scriptures tell us that in the last days good shall be evil and evil shall be good. This is a perfect example of that. I believe that we have a right to make our own choices, but I also believe that there are consequences that go with all choices, whether good or bad, and we can't choose the consequences. Getting pregnant is a consequence (again it could be a good or bad consequence) and I believe that we should have to deal with those consequences. In our world today we have made it so that 'dealing' with that consequence can mean getting rid of the consequence. I strongly believe that there will be additional consequences to that choice. It makes me sad to see us, as a society, going down this path. This woman's children will have a greater risk of having some health and or mental issues. This is a sad thing to happen, but there are a lot of families who have children with these issues and the family does not love the child any less nor is the child's life worth any less. I am sad for people who have to face these challenges and I am not diminishing their difficulties when I say this next statement. I believe that it is better to have a spirit brought down to this earth into a body that is physically or mentally challenged than to not have that spirit come down at all.

7 comments:

Katie said...

I had never even heard of that! That is the craziest thing I've ever heard of!!!! I'm totally with you on this one!

Anonymous said...

I hate to say it, but I agree with both of you. I know, crazy huh. In the Ensign for February, there is some articles about adoption and those who made that choice. I am not sayin she should adopt, just saying it is better than abortion. There are tons of people who can't have kids but we are still killing them. I do agree with choice to a point. But that is all I am going to say because this is not my blog.

Leelee said...

Katie told me last night you had posted this on your site, so I had to put my 2 cents in. ;) Did you know she already has 6 kids and the oldest is 7?!?!?! Also, she isn't married and has to live with her Mom. Her Mom said she has been obsessed with having babies since she was a young teenager. So, now she has 14 children and the oldest is 7., with no job, no husband, no place to live on her own, etc. I think she (and her Doctors) should have been making a different decision about 8 years ago. Children deserve better than this! Have a VERY nice day! lol

temaire said...

When I posted this I didn't know that she had that many, was living off of welfare and her mom. However, I still don't think she should have aborted. I think that she should have thought before hand and NOT gotten pregnant to begin with! But then I guess that some people just are 'thinkin'. :)

Froggie said...

I will tell you something...if I had 14 kids under 7, I wouldn't abort them, I'd abort ME!!

Katie said...

I just don't understand why they would implant her with 8! Especially since she already had 6. There should have been a counselor involved somewhere...

Leelee said...

I do agree that there should be rigorous counseling and mental evaluation. This woman is certainly not the poster child for IVF! She has set back the process years! (imnsho! lol)

She would have failed an examination to test her mental health. She has been hospitalized for mental health issues and I heard her the other day and was scared for those 14 children.

I think the Doctors should all be in jail! j/k, though I wonder what their motive was.

Scott, you crack me up! lol